I am certain that most of you have heard the saying, “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.” What this phrase basically means (in my own words) is that you can teach or show people a better way, but you can not force them to learn or make the right decisions for his/her life.

I had to learn this lesson the hard way. In my first relationship I was the leader. If I could, I would have held his hand through his entire life. However, at the end of it all, I realized that I did very little to help him because I decided for him. The fact is, I was not his mother, and he was not my child.

I’ve never been happier knowing where my limitations are. I can’t escape the reality of me being a teacher and guide. But I have escaped the delusion of thinking I can force someone to ‘get it’.

So, for those of you out there who are leaders, teachers, guides etc. Do what you can to fulfill your duty, but know where your limits are. Trust me, it will save you a lot of heartache and stress.

Lady~G